It Gwenny Birthday!

Last Saturday 4th July 2009 is the day when Gwen mark her end of mid twenties statues moving to Late twenties!!! Hoho sound damm scary! Anyway I held a mini surprise / celebration for her with Jeff, ah Long, Cat, ah Lam & me!

Itinerary of the day:

8pm - Dinner at Vivo ( Pu Tien)

Plan: Wanted to reach early to buy a cake and surprise her when the dinner end, but due to the bad traffic and parking, we only reach the restaurant 815pm, not forgetting need to collect the movie tix too. By then we are so hungry, totally forget about the cake.

Mission: Failed

10pm - Dessert & Coffee At Bakerzin

Plan: Purposely chose that place so we could have coffee as our excuse, at the same time Bakerzin's cake is nicer. But the queue is bloody long even though is 10pm

Mission: Failed

1010pm all the way to move started - Back up plan at Gloria Jean

Plan: Excuse myself to the ladies to get her a cake, but she followed me!

Mission: Failed

Back up plan: Get cat to help me buy cake when she reached. Rushed to Bakerzin to buy cake when she arrived. Of course, I have to pretend actually I helping her to carry her bulky stuff.

Mission: Suceed to getting away without being suspicious

To my horror, it left with only a SLICE of cake!

The rest let the pics do the talking.

(A Slice of cake in a BIG box!)

(Sorry Gwen, only left A SLICE left!)

(Preparing to slaughter the cake)

(opps forget to take a shot first!)

(Classic photo of the year! This is damm hilarious la! I such a good candid photographer! calling price 10K! )

(This is me sacrifce for her day! I make it a point to dress up and make up lo!!!)

(shy*2)

(everyone to have a bite!)

(Couple wear spotted?)

Finally the last 2 guests arrived before we proceed to watch ICE AGE 3 in 3D!!! I must say is the 3D experience is real good. You got to put on a glasses like this:

(Woman In Black!)

to enjoy the effect! It damm cool la! I wanna watch 3D again!

Pitches is so damm cute la, remind me of how Jeff behave! *grin*

Before the end of the post! Let me present the classic photo of the year again!!!

(Gwen, you know I love you so much! You wont be angry right?)

The day when he say he did not treat me as friend

Those who know me pretty well will know that I treat friendship with a certain level of pirority. As long I treat you as my friend, you will get the attention from me, somehow I do expect the same amount of attention in return.

But that was the past. The number of disappointments and broken heart I received had make me realise that I should just give and take as not all the people behave the same way as me: Friendship 1st ! Eventually Family or Relationship will surpassed over Friendship in due time.

But the least I expect in return is ' I do not treat her as a friend' came out from his mouth when I do treat him as a friend more then a colleague or tenant. Now it making me confused, should I just continued treat him as a colleague or tenant. In both suitation, I do not talk nescessary except work or house matter. Maybe I should just treat him as a colleague with a hi - bye gesture.

Actually I do feel our relationship has distance ever since he moved in. We used to have lunch together, chat abit over work together with Friend R. But throughout their 2 months stay, they have been hiding inside their room and gradually less contact in office. It feeling weird as I do not wish the previous incident will my ex tenant will happen again. As much as possible I already did and tell whatever things that should not be done in the house to lessen the conflicts. Seem like it not helping or my expectation is too high. But as for now, I strongly stick to my points, those complains and requirements are basic humans should know and follow.

Today as usual, colleague B and friend R were having their normal chat ( that w/o me, last time I will joined them), suddenly this phrase ' I do not treat her as my friend!' caught my ear. Feeling they were discussing about me, I look up and I right. colleague B was looking at my direction. ( there no one behind me expect a full height glass door) Immediately he replied 'I treat her as my landlady' to explain t

I have heard this a million time which started to irks me. For the first few time, I could take it as a joke but now I do take it personally. Because if me being a landlady I will draw the line very clearly. Terms and conditions shall draft by a lawyer whilst a friend will discussed everything verbally and the rest will base on mutal trust = close one eye and shut one eye.

My PUB bills have arrived yesteday, its a drastic increase from last month below $100 to nearly $200 this month. Granted it might be a error or miscalculate, I decide not to charge him the excess which was agreeded verbally but to inform them as I wanted to try out till next month and evaluate again before charging all because I treat him as a friend.

This had me disappointed to angry and i am feeling terrible throughout the day. Keep thinking about what he had said. Maybe he is joking which he always did but I could not buy his definition of landlady and friend at that moment.

Friendship need nurture, just like SIMS, you need to nurture the friendship around you before you could tease or poke them and the other party wont feel offended. If you tease a stranger, I sure the stranger will return with a slap. It happens here, friendship takes 2 hands to clap. If one party keeps hiding himself inside the room and only knows how to repeats 'hi' and 'bye' all the time, this is what I call tenant and landlord only.

And why am I bullshitting this when he did not treat me as a friend at all? Feeling so vexed! Yes I a petty person and had short temper. Totally justify a ARIES. Ok tomorrow shall be a better
day!

I am pretty excited on tomorrow 3D ICE AGE 3 with the gang. Going to have a long night long gossip session and ya it GWENNY birthday!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY GWEN! STAY PRETTY ALWAYS! REMEMBER TO LOVE yourself more! (ya she dont love herself one hoho)

Things people do /say that irritates me

1) Liars / cheaters. I really hate people who lied. If they decide to lie, make sure they lied for life! Otherwise they simply can eat shit and die.



2) Asking when I having babies. It getting too irritating to hear this so many times. ( Come on, if you are really my close friend, you should that I am not ready and I simply too young for that! And the issue when I having baby, is totally none of your business too!)


3) The 'Pilot' group. This group of people will discuss everything and anything and she make you 100% enthus and suddenly she just fly you big time aeroplane without any warning or with a stupid reason.

4) The brainless family. They do things without using their big brain. Ex: Inserting the power plug when the whole kettle is wet!

5) People will no initiative. These people just wait at a corner, waiting for money to drop from the sky. Ex: Friendship take 2 hands to clap then melody will form.


6) People who gossip in front of you. When you ask what going on, they replied you with ' I don't tell you' or 'its nothing'. If you seriously going to talk secret or gossip and don't want others to know, jolly well go somewhere else and talk



7) People who assume. ASS make out of YOU & ME



8) Sadist or low self confidence people. Commit suicide is what they have in mind, thinking their world will end when he or she bf/gf left them. In life, they do not care about the feelings of those people around them like family and friends. So why do we bother about them!


9) People with no mindset and decision. Example:

Scene 1
ME: 'What you want to drink?'

FREN A: ANYTHING! *puke blood*

FREN B: You drink what then I drink what *puma shoe flying across Fren B's face*

Scene 2
*texting FREN A, FREN B & C on the outing on next weekend with the full details. Taking the situtaion whereby fren A & B knew each other, C is a stranger to them.

FREN B replied with a 'YES' *smiling to myself, I like this spontaneous people*

FREN A replied: 'Who is going?' *proceed to reply with: 'only me and Fren B, but a friend which is C might tag along'

FREN A replied: 'is a guy or girl?' still holding on my temper replied with: 'a guy'

FREN A replied: 'I know one or not? very weird leh' *delete her SMS and ignored her.

An answer YES or NO is so difficult to reply?


10) I hate being left out in a group gathering, its even worse for those who got attached and chuck their friends aside.


11) Talk but no actions. Talk is cheap so please have the determination to do it!

12) The busybodies also known as the audio people. These guys are very quick in reacting towards any topic on gossip. Thus they will immediately run towards you and keep asking ' what, what what what what, tell me tell me tell me.' And the most disgusting part is, THEY DO NOT SHARE ANY GOSSIP WITH YOU! So there is only input but no output.

13) The salesman range of friend. They do not / cant bother to remember what you have told them. Each time they met up with you, they will ask you the same questions all over again! example:

Scene 1
FREN A : 'You still working in XYZ company?'

ME: 'Actually I have told you a MILLION TIMES that I have been working in ABC company for almost a year.'

Scene 2
*receive a card from a friend B of 7years*

It says: 'Hi LEE JIN,'

*crush the card and throw into the dustbin*

ME: I have Tell you so many times, my name is LEE CHIN or LI JIN!!!! Simply cant get into you head!!!

*called friend B and start nagging*



So are you one of them?

My new hobby - Kickboxing

WTF, this is my 1st time experience blogger problem, which means this entry was totally deleted off without my knockledge when I tried to publish it! And I like spent almost 1hour plus to write lo! Totally feel meaningless to re-write it. But since is such a intertesting post, I shall rewrite again. *cross finger*

Yes I just attended my first kickboxng with Taz at hougang sport hall. Our instructor Daniel had indeed make the lesson very interesting and fun. But sad to say, I totally forget all moves names except ARMPIT! Hoho

Armpit is literally showing your armpit when you hit your opponent using your elbow. Just imagine after your opponent get a blow from you and still have to suffer your armpit smell!

The rest of the names are like elbow swing, knee, etc and some exhale moves by shouting!

Now I looking forward to my kickboxing lessons on every Monday, at least it motivate me to go work in the morning too! So bye bye to Monday Blues

Most importantly, I one step nearer to attaining my perfect weight of 55kg to wear my wedding gown. With all these workout like swimming, roller blade, I definately can do it! PERSEVERANCE & DETERMINATIONS are the key factor!

There another thing to feel happy about! Which is my xiao di finally ended his 24.5 years of singleHood!! I glad he will call me up and tell me about it!! XIAO DI CONGRATULATION!! hehe hope to meet up with her soon, at least must help you survey the girl first, see her character and behaviour ma, what if ended up like the one in my house? A wolf covered with sheep skin? Puke...

Tomorrow will be a lazy day, hanging out at my spa parlour with Constance couple and Ah lao after my consultantion at KKH. (btw, I signed a package with them, not owned by me!) Let pray its the final consultant, not only the medical fees are draining me, the hormones pills which I need to take made me put on so much weight throughout these 6months. I HATE THAT!!! Throughout these 6months, I hate taking photos, looking myself into the mirror. So tomorrow after the consultant shall be my 1st step into looking beautiful again!

Right now, I need to publish this post immediately before it get crazy again!

And follow by my beauty sleep! Tata!!!

A pleasant surprise Valentine

O my! My 1st post for the year 2009 is on FEB! Can imagine how busy I am to miss all the happening posts regarding christmas, new year eve count down & Chinese new year gambling and some personal thoughts of mine.

So let me begin this 1st post for the year 2009 to be a sweet and nice post. No swearing (on later part) and cursing.

Yes that is Valentine Day!

My 1st thing in the morning on Valentine day is work. Yes I got to work on alternate Saturday which I dread doing so. I was vey late, luckily ah lao was able to send me to work even though he could sleep longer. So sweet! Sweetness level up 1point!

Before the clock could strike 1pm, I was all ready to leave to meet Huix2 to get the 'LIU SAN JIE' muscial concert ticket which was on next Saturday 21st at Esplanade. My first muscial concert at Esplanade which I dying to go! Imagine dressing up nicely to attend the concert. At least it give me that 2hours of feeling 'CLASS'

Actually all thanks to Huix2! She get to invite to help out / perform for this skit from one of our Singpore Media Academy member. And a side track about me, I once join the chinese broadcasting school for a short while. Trying to attain my dream of becoming a chinese DJ. After the course, I realise my chinese level is still far far far far away from becoming a rookie DJ. So Huix2 Jia you! I still Owe you the MU member card!

We rushed down to Bedok 85 to eat the BA CHOR MEE only to realise that those stalls do not open in the noon, so we make a wasted trip! But my hunger was way beyond my limits, so we settle at a coffee shop near by. To my sadness, none of the stalls look edible as all of the stalls are open by our dear PRC. 100% turn off. So I settle for 1 of the Malay stall which turn out also not nice! But better get posion by them.

I strongly feel all the PRC should at least learn our basic language if you seriously want to heed our MM Lee advise, please do not expect us to learn your way instead. Example I was ordering a drink from this chinese lady. I ask her is there any cooked drink, she looked at me and LAUGHED! WTF! I mean all people understand cooked drink = home made drink la! Puke!

After all the drama, we went to buy 4D and back home. Suddenly I keep looking at Ah Lao, thinking will I get any flower? I search the whole house, no flower was found. Moody level up +1point.

We head down to Plaza Sing for our TEPPAN dinner, we are so lucky to manage to escape that $1 ERP by driving damm slow infront of the ERP! So we are $1 nearer to our KOVAN RESIDENCE! Dinner was so so only, luckily there not much crowd.

After parking, Ah lao magically come up with a bouquet of flower from our BOOT! And why I did not search that place!! Anyway is a very sweet surprise. Sweetness level up 3points! I such a easy satisfied wife!

(lovely flower with 'I LOVE YOU')

While waiting for our movie which start at 1130pm we decide to play 'catch guai guai' As usual I always aim those machine with SITCH inside. Yesterday I am always that 95% so near to catching it! When we were about to give up, ah lao said we should try one more time, if failed we give up! I let him have his turn first, the legs got hooked at the plastic. So is my turn, as usual I used my 'shaking' tastic, wait till the time up nearer I released, it hold STITCH perfectly with the shake at all, and we prayed it throw into the bin! To my surprise it hold STITCH all the way to the bin and released!! I was overjoyed. Its my 2nd time successfully catch STITCH! I so Lucky!! His name shall be valentine!!

(it so cute! dont you think so?)

After the 2hrs coming to 3hrs movie, (we watch 'The curious Case of Benjamin Button', one word-thumb up! ) we are totally worn out, no photos, no red wine, after ah lao bathe, he was like a dead log! zzzz.

Though no fanciful dinner, or gifts, as long as we had each other side by side, everyday is a Valentine day. Wish all the lovers had a long and lasting relationship. And all the married couple a blissful marriage like us! Hohoh

Stupidity Kills

How time flies, and here is the last day of 2008. Should be feeling happy and joyous over it. But the stupid woman in my house boils me again! Is don't no how many gazilion time again! Ever since she moved in, I have been complaining non-stop, before your think I been naggy, NOPE I do not like to repeat things all over again like a typical aunty! But she will always create new things for you to boil! And seriously her Intelligence level really doubts me!

Last night, my cousin arrived from KL. Will be staying over at my place, so I decided to show and brief her through as my DESIGNED house by ME have quite a number of 'traps'! To my horror, actually not really horror cause I already knew/expect something disgusting or unsightly things/events will always happened and this is what we found! Is something new!




( Toiletbowl fulled of long hair, even on the seat )

Can you imagine how 'clever' she is!. Actually this clears my doubt, caused everytime I walk passed the toilet she used after shower, there is no long hair on the floor trap, and I don't see her use her fragile hand to pick up and throw into the refuse chute! So where the hair went to! Dont tell me she do not drop hair? Rubbish! She ate so much junk food confirmed drop la!

So my conclusion is! She simply washed her head over the toilet bowl! 1 Bird kill 2 stones!

1st = She no need to dirty her hand to pick up those hair on the floor, after washed she can use the spray gun to wash it down to the W.C. The problem is she so 'smart' till this time round I caught her red handed.

2nd = She can make use of this chance to wash the toilet bowl using her KHEIL shampoo when she washed her hair over it! Seriously I so amazed by her!

How will you feel? I felt so disgusted now as I type as times I really urgent, I would use their toilet first! Now not anymore! Even the shit is at the butt end, I die die will go back to my room and shit! Can you imagine your butt is in-tact with the amount of germs!

But to my fellow friends that regulary will come to my house and stay, I feel so sad for their butt!

Should I send a nasty SMS to the brother? Still pending....

Mersing, Food & The New Loot In the House

Well I just reach back Singapore not long ago, super jam! Went back to Jeff hometown, Mersing for a short break over the weekend. A relax trip, slow pace of life, no china accent. Opps! All I have to do was to eat and sleep. Rare chance..

We set off quite late on Saturday night. Luckily there was no jam on the way so the journey was quite smooth. Actually not very smooth, as usual I need to go through a hell of roller coaster ride on the way back. People went back with me before will know what I meant by this.

My must food itenarary for this trip were:

1) The nasi lemak by the jetty

2) The famous sweet and sour pork

3) The steam bread ( Singapore only sell toasted bread )

All were perfect expect for the nasi lemak. Their standard drop tremendously! The rice was oily, no frangrance and the chili was not spicy enough! I think Punggol nasi lemark taste better then them! Disappointed. Later then I knew, the old chef was sick. I SO SUAY! So many trips back, I only manage to eat ONCE! And that one time it locked my heart till yesterday.

Finally Jeff got himself a racer bike which cost only RM680! Think Ah long will be fumming mad! Not only that, I gotten the bicycle carrier for the car so I could bring it to ECP which could carry up to max 3 bicycles.

Actually I do not understand why in the past, kids like to take a picture of themselves with the bicycle? The Japanese guy in LITTLE NONYA also take a picture of him and his bicycle. My dad also had a picture of himself with the bicycle. Thus I decided to take a traditional 'owner with

bicycle' photo for Jeff!

HAHA so corny, I even switch to the Sepia mode for more retro look. The background and the attire was carefully chosen wor.

(The front view)

And it so light. Its only 12kg, I could simply carry up with just one hand! But I have to carry mine using 2hands. :(

I WANT TO CHANGE BICYCLE!!! HoHo I want to join the OCBC challenge!!! Like real, unless I manage to cycle up this hill!

(Is crazily steep lo!)